Dealing with Spousal Abuse or Family Violence
Family abuse is a crime. It takes many forms, including physical abuse, mental and emotional abuse, intimidation, sexual abuse, neglect, and financial exploitation. We have information to help you get the facts and to get help.
Although some of the contacts featured on the site are from specific communities, other provinces, and geared towards women - many of the referrals and information are accessible to everyone and apply across Nova Scotia. The resources can also help men who are victims of abuse.
This resource is not intended as a replacement to emergency assistance or to offer legal advice.
If this is an emergency or you are afraid for your life, call 911 or your local police service.
Crisis Lines
- Your can find information on crisis lines in your local Yellow Pages
- Canadian Association of Sexual Assault Centers - List of Nova Scotia anti-violence centres in Nova Scotia
- Emergency shelters
- Halifax Regional Municipality Help Lines and Other Phone Numbers - 24-hour telephone service provides crisis / suicide intervention, lay counseling and referrals.
- If you suspect child abuse or neglect and it’s after regular business hours, there is a toll-free number to call - 1-866-922-2434 – from 4:30 p.m. to 8:30 a.m Monday through Friday, a weekend, or a holiday. During regular business hours call your local child welfare agency (PDF - 187KB).
Don't leave online traces
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General Information
- Emergency Shelters
- Problem Gambling Services
- Family Violence Prevention - Public Health Services, Nova Scotia Department of Health
- Child Abuse - Indicators Of Possible Abuse Or Neglect
- And They Lived
Happily Ever After ...rights and responsibilities of common law partners (PDF)
Developing a Safety Plan
Leaving the abuse behind is not a decision to be taken lightly. There are, of course, many factors to be considered. We hope the information on the sites collected will help you with your considerations or, should you have already decided to leave, assist you while preparing a safety plan.
Getting Help / Getting Out
You are not alone. There are many services across Nova Scotia providing assistance and advice to those who are in need of help to escape the violence. The links below provide a wide range of information from learning more about preparing to leave, to locating a shelter or obtaining a peace bond. Please note a reference to Making Changes: A Book for Women in Abusive Relationships (PDF - 640KB) is set out below.
Where to Go for Help- The Crisis Lines
- What to do when leaving an abusive relationship (who do you contact, where do you go) - Resource from Alberta
- Making Changes: A Book for Women in Abusive Relationships
- Shelters for abused women and their children are a safe place to go. They provide a place to stay, support and counseling, and will help you understand your rights and how to plan for the safety of you and your children. If you want help in escaping a violent relationship, call the shelter in the community closest to where you live.
- Sexual Assault Centres - Nova Scotia
- Resources available for victims with disabilities - for Canada
- Victim Services, Department of Justice - has four Regional Offices and operates four core programs. Victim Services also provides expertise and policy advice and develops special initiatives in response to the needs and concerns of victims of crime.
- Making Changes: A Book for Women in Abusive Relationships
- Legal Information Line - There is no charge for this service. The Legal Information Society of Nova Scotia cannot give you legal advice but if you want to talk with a lawyer they can refer you through the Lawyer Referral Service.
- Legal Information Society of Nova Scotia - Publications - Information on Criminal Law and Family Law
- Help and advice with taking the children and frequently asked questions about custody.
- The Criminal Justice System Information for Victims of Crime
- Dial-a-Law - Free legal information on a taped message service 24 hours a day. Look under the Family Law section for information on Separation, Divorce, Child Support and Spousal Support, etc.
- Where to Get Legal Information in Nova Scotia and How to Find a Lawyer (PDF)
- Dalhousie Legal Aid
- Report on Federal-Provincial-Territorial Consultations on Custody, Access and Child Support in Canada (November 2001)
What happens when you call the police?
If the police are contacted, certain processes and procedures will follow. The links below may help you learn how the system works. Please note that a number of references to Making Changes: A Book for Women in Abusive Relationships are set out below.
- What Happens When You Call the Police? - See handbook page 31
- What Happens If the Police Lay Charges? - See handbook pages 32
- What Happens When He's Charged? - See handbook page 33
- Going to court
- The Child Victim/Witness Program - Nova Scotia Department of Justice
- If the abuser goes to jail, call Nova Scotia Department of Justice Victims' Services where you can get information on how to register to receive an Information/Release Notification to get information about the abuser's release date. If the abuser was federally incarcerated, you can contact the National Parole Board for this information, or you can download and print an Information Request Form.
Related Legal Information
- Where to Get Legal Information in Nova Scotia and How to Find a Lawyer (PDF)
- Information on Divorce
- A Victim's Guide to the Court Process (PDF)
- This site will help your child understand separation and divorce
- Maintenance Enforcement Program - processes child and spousal support payments to help ensure that support gets paid on a regular basis
- Issues that abused immigrant and refugee women deal with
What you can do to help an abused woman
The following sites will help you understand the many issues women in abusive situations face:

