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Problem Gambling

Listening to Friends and Family

Open Your Ears, Open Your Mind

Some people with a gambling problem may be the last to know. Research shows that friends and family members often see the signs long before the gambler does.

That's why you should listen, really listen, to what people close to you are saying. They're not trying to stop you from having "fun"; they're not trying to control you; they're not trying to question your character.

They are just worried about you and your family. Getting angry with them for questioning your gambling behaviour doesn't help them feel better, and if you do have a problem, denying it won't make it go away.

If your loved one is telling you that there are money problems, listen.

If your loved one tells you your gambling is straining your relationship with them, listen.

If your children are asking why you're going out again, listen.

If your family is telling you they're afraid you have a problem, listen.

It is likely you know in your heart they're right. Listen, and consider getting help.

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