You will have work to do there as well. Money can often be replaced or re-earned, but a relationship can be irrevocably damaged or destroyed.
- If the gambling puts them in danger of losing savings or property, loved ones can feel scared, angry and betrayed.
- Loved ones who have been hurt often don't want to be emotionally or physically close with the person who has hurt them.
- They may avoid other people due to the shame they feel. This could include no longer being as active with the faith community.
- Loved ones can also suffer from anxiety, depression and stress-related problems.
- Loved ones may try to keep things in control by taking on too many tasks which can lead to burnout.
- When a parent has a gambling problem, children can feel forgotten, depressed and angry. They may not understand what is happening and can blame themselves.
- Children may believe they must take sides between their parents.
- Children may stop trusting a parent who makes promises and doesn't keep them.
- Stress can lead to hurtful words or physical violence towards loved ones.
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